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July 30, 2009 — 1 Comment

shopping_supermarket_market_266581_lThe other day Sarah and Iwent along with our next-door neighbors on a road trip toward Philadelphia.  We didn’t have any particular agenda other than to enjoy the King of Prussia mall and celebrate with Dan (our neighbor) when he finally procured a new iPhone 3Gs—a special reward for kicking the nicotine habit.  But while we were there participating in North American consumerism, I was struck by the way a few places did business and how some of the principles which seemed to drive positive experience (and those that brought about a negative experience) have a great deal of value to those of us pursuing relevant and engaging ministry.  Yes, I know some of you will have a problem with using consumer-based observations to talk about effective ministry… that’s okay: don’t read this post.

So, here are four more positive principles I caught on our little journey (I’ll post a couple of ‘no no’s’ after the next ‘Joshua’ post…):

Accept that People May Come with no Intention to ‘Buy [In]’ to Anything: Let them browse.

One of the first in-mall stops we made was at Tiffany’s.

I am an unemployed minister and my wife is a part time administrative assistant.  Let’s just say we’re not rolling in the dough.

Dough is something you need to buy most of the stuff at Tiffany’s.  It was obvious that Sarah and I aren’t really ‘Tiffany’s’ kind of people.  Something that struck me was the level of comfort the staff had with a group of four people who came in just to look around.  They understood that people would come and go having not bought anything.  There were no high-pressure sales techniques, but there also wasn’t any sense that we were some kind of nuisance.  We were welcome even though no one was going to close a sale off of us.

I would guess they were okay with us taking up space because the good folks at Tiffany’s know that if we’re going to buy something, it may not be on the first or second or third visit.  I would also guess they know that what they offer isn’t for everyone.  There will always be those who come in and leave without making any kind of commitment.

There are times we’re driven to ‘make people buy’ what we’re selling—our vision for the future or some little project.  Accept that people may come to see you burn with passion, they may enjoy what you say, they may even like what you have to offer… but that doesn’t mean they’re going to buy.  And that’s okay.

Understand that Different People Have Different Expectations: Not everybody will like/approve of/applaud what you’re doing.

I really enjoy Apple products.  In fact, I’m a huge fan.  I like seeing other people who use a MacBook while at a coffee shop and talking about their ‘Mac experience;’ I enjoy discussing the latest and greatest innovation headed our way… and I especially enjoy spending time in an Apple Store.  When we finally made it to the Apple Store, the place was packed.  I had to squeeze in past people and was struck at the kind of noise a bunch of people can make in a small area.  AND I LOVED IT.  It was part of the experience.  Getting hands-on with products, asking questions, considering options… in a place where each aspect of the shopping experience is designed to be exactly the way it is (it didn’t seem anything was ‘accidental’ about layout, service, or care).  Again, I loved it.

But it was a little too much for my wife and our neighbor friends.  For people who are unfamiliar with ‘the brand’ it likely seems chaotic and overwhelming.  For people who prefer to browse quietly or anonymously, the Apple Store would be a little scary.  Those people may not buy from an Apple Store… and as of yet, I don’t see Apple changing their stores to try to reach them—they have other points-of-sale which will allow more private people to engage the brand in another way: online, over the phone, or through retail partnerships.  Not everybody enjoys an Apple Store, and Apple’s okay with that.

When it comes to churches, not everyone will enjoy your environments (too big, too small, too noisy, too quiet…)—but hopefully they will help you reach your focus group; are you okay with that?

Do One Thing and Do it Well: We don’t have to major in every experience.

Next to the Apple Store was the Bose store.

Know what Bose does?  Sound.

That’s it.

The only thing you can buy at Bose is sound stuff.  Sound components for home theater systems, speakers for computers, audio hookups for mp3 players, even whole-house systems.  But it’s all sound related.

They believe quality sound enhances just about everything—and that the enhancement is worth a premium for quality of workmanship and technology.  For entertainment, they promote the premise a high-quality TV needs high-quality sound.  And you can’t buy the TV from them.

Sound is what they do.

It seems they feel if they can just get you to experience what they do best, you’ll be convinced of the value of it.  (This works, by the way… my wife could care less about sound components, but after experiencing the Bose demonstration, she told me she secretly would enjoy the system we experienced—hefty price tag and all (of course, this is assuming my whole ‘unemployed’ situation were to be rectified)).

We can’t possibly do everything well, and that’s okay… but are we doing something very, very well?

It’s Okay to Focus on Experience More than Expediency: Faster isn’t always better.

Our last stop before leaving town for the day was IKEA.  Those Swedes know a thing or two about enjoyable, affordable design.  They also set up their store on the premise that people need to experience the product before they buy it—so, the unsuspecting shopper is confronted with a seemingly endless supply of showroom displays with each component noting where it’s found for pickup and how much it costs.  The veteran IKEAphile isn’t so much ‘confronted’ with the style of the store as much as they have come to savor it.

While we were there, I didn’t notice anybody in a hurry.  They walked, browsed, and enjoyed.  Now, if someone HAD been in a hurry, I’m sure they could have rushed through without too much difficulty… but much of the experience is wrapped up in not being a slave to the clock.   There’s nothing wrong with getting things done in a hurry or maintaining focus, but I think it’s important to make sure we’re not pursuing expediency at the cost of experience.  It’s okay to slow down.

Now, of course, these observations only go so far before they break down; not to mention the obvious fact that they’re my observations… so, they come from my [flawed/geeky/strange] perspective. It’s also really important to note that all of this comes with the mindset that these are principles for helping to impact our world with the truth, power, love and presence of Jesus… not for the benefit of institution, bottom line, or brand… which is definitely something we can’t just learn from the mall.  And I’m okay with that.

Any thoughts?

That's Okay…

July 30, 2009 — 1 Comment

shopping_supermarket_market_266581_lThe other day Sarah and Iwent along with our next-door neighbors on a road trip toward Philadelphia.  We didn’t have any particular agenda other than to enjoy the King of Prussia mall and celebrate with Dan (our neighbor) when he finally procured a new iPhone 3Gs—a special reward for kicking the nicotine habit.  But while we were there participating in North American consumerism, I was struck by the way a few places did business and how some of the principles which seemed to drive positive experience (and those that brought about a negative experience) have a great deal of value to those of us pursuing relevant and engaging ministry.  Yes, I know some of you will have a problem with using consumer-based observations to talk about effective ministry… that’s okay: don’t read this post.

So, here are four more positive principles I caught on our little journey (I’ll post a couple of ‘no no’s’ after the next ‘Joshua’ post…):

Accept that People May Come with no Intention to ‘Buy [In]’ to Anything: Let them browse.

One of the first in-mall stops we made was at Tiffany’s.

I am an unemployed minister and my wife is a part time administrative assistant.  Let’s just say we’re not rolling in the dough.

Dough is something you need to buy most of the stuff at Tiffany’s.  It was obvious that Sarah and I aren’t really ‘Tiffany’s’ kind of people.  Something that struck me was the level of comfort the staff had with a group of four people who came in just to look around.  They understood that people would come and go having not bought anything.  There were no high-pressure sales techniques, but there also wasn’t any sense that we were some kind of nuisance.  We were welcome even though no one was going to close a sale off of us.

I would guess they were okay with us taking up space because the good folks at Tiffany’s know that if we’re going to buy something, it may not be on the first or second or third visit.  I would also guess they know that what they offer isn’t for everyone.  There will always be those who come in and leave without making any kind of commitment.

There are times we’re driven to ‘make people buy’ what we’re selling—our vision for the future or some little project.  Accept that people may come to see you burn with passion, they may enjoy what you say, they may even like what you have to offer… but that doesn’t mean they’re going to buy.  And that’s okay.

Understand that Different People Have Different Expectations: Not everybody will like/approve of/applaud what you’re doing.

I really enjoy Apple products.  In fact, I’m a huge fan.  I like seeing other people who use a MacBook while at a coffee shop and talking about their ‘Mac experience;’ I enjoy discussing the latest and greatest innovation headed our way… and I especially enjoy spending time in an Apple Store.  When we finally made it to the Apple Store, the place was packed.  I had to squeeze in past people and was struck at the kind of noise a bunch of people can make in a small area.  AND I LOVED IT.  It was part of the experience.  Getting hands-on with products, asking questions, considering options… in a place where each aspect of the shopping experience is designed to be exactly the way it is (it didn’t seem anything was ‘accidental’ about layout, service, or care).  Again, I loved it.

But it was a little too much for my wife and our neighbor friends.  For people who are unfamiliar with ‘the brand’ it likely seems chaotic and overwhelming.  For people who prefer to browse quietly or anonymously, the Apple Store would be a little scary.  Those people may not buy from an Apple Store… and as of yet, I don’t see Apple changing their stores to try to reach them—they have other points-of-sale which will allow more private people to engage the brand in another way: online, over the phone, or through retail partnerships.  Not everybody enjoys an Apple Store, and Apple’s okay with that.

When it comes to churches, not everyone will enjoy your environments (too big, too small, too noisy, too quiet…)—but hopefully they will help you reach your focus group; are you okay with that?

Do One Thing and Do it Well: We don’t have to major in every experience.

Next to the Apple Store was the Bose store.

Know what Bose does?  Sound.

That’s it.

The only thing you can buy at Bose is sound stuff.  Sound components for home theater systems, speakers for computers, audio hookups for mp3 players, even whole-house systems.  But it’s all sound related.

They believe quality sound enhances just about everything—and that the enhancement is worth a premium for quality of workmanship and technology.  For entertainment, they promote the premise a high-quality TV needs high-quality sound.  And you can’t buy the TV from them.

Sound is what they do.

It seems they feel if they can just get you to experience what they do best, you’ll be convinced of the value of it.  (This works, by the way… my wife could care less about sound components, but after experiencing the Bose demonstration, she told me she secretly would enjoy the system we experienced—hefty price tag and all (of course, this is assuming my whole ‘unemployed’ situation were to be rectified)).

We can’t possibly do everything well, and that’s okay… but are we doing something very, very well?

It’s Okay to Focus on Experience More than Expediency: Faster isn’t always better.

Our last stop before leaving town for the day was IKEA.  Those Swedes know a thing or two about enjoyable, affordable design.  They also set up their store on the premise that people need to experience the product before they buy it—so, the unsuspecting shopper is confronted with a seemingly endless supply of showroom displays with each component noting where it’s found for pickup and how much it costs.  The veteran IKEAphile isn’t so much ‘confronted’ with the style of the store as much as they have come to savor it.

While we were there, I didn’t notice anybody in a hurry.  They walked, browsed, and enjoyed.  Now, if someone HAD been in a hurry, I’m sure they could have rushed through without too much difficulty… but much of the experience is wrapped up in not being a slave to the clock.   There’s nothing wrong with getting things done in a hurry or maintaining focus, but I think it’s important to make sure we’re not pursuing expediency at the cost of experience.  It’s okay to slow down.

Now, of course, these observations only go so far before they break down; not to mention the obvious fact that they’re my observations… so, they come from my [flawed/geeky/strange] perspective. It’s also really important to note that all of this comes with the mindset that these are principles for helping to impact our world with the truth, power, love and presence of Jesus… not for the benefit of institution, bottom line, or brand… which is definitely something we can’t just learn from the mall.  And I’m okay with that.

Any thoughts?

As Joshua’s journey as the new leader of his people continues, it’s striking to note the impossibility of the situation he faces.  But, as we’ve covered pretty well, when Joshua faced and when we face impossible situations in life, we can trust in God’s faithfulness to his plan and to us as the Unfailing One.  It’s pretty important to follow his instructions as well… after all, he’s God and we aren’t.

After Joshua has his discussion with God and speaks to the leaders of different tribes that had agreed to help conquer the land (who, by the way, echo precisely the same words of strength and courage God himself has spoken to Joshua—I’m not of the mindset that these were just culturally customary words), he sends a couple of spies into the land for reconnaissance.  There’s a lot that can be said here about trusting in God’s promise and provision, but still doing the wise thing… but there’s something else about the second chapter of Joshua that is striking to me.  At the center of the action is a woman named Rahab.  Much later in the Scriptures, this is what we read about her:

By faith, the prostitute Rahab, because she welcomed the spies, was not killed with those who were disobedient. (Hebrews 11:31, TNIV)

Somehow, the story in chapter two of Joshua gives us insight into faith.  The next couple entries in our ‘Joshua discussion’ will focus a little bit on some of those  interesting insights—because the way many of us picture ‘faith’ might be different that what God shows us faith can be.

But first, some back-story:

The Scripture in Hebrews reminds us that Rahab is a prostitute, and that’s clearly portrayed in Joshua.  Her life probably wasn’t very glamorous—-her home was in the wall of the city where the less-than-desirable, lower caste of people lived.  She was used and abused by people seeking pleasure.  It’s likely even her own family would have had precious little to do with her—-she was dirty and unworthy.

She wasn’t anything impressive.  She was a bad girl with a sordid past who made a living out of selling herself.  But she would find her name listed in a couple places in Scripture where those of us who are more ‘sensitive’ might find ourselves insisting she doesn’t belong: in the great ‘Faith Chapter’ of Hebrews 11 (where the above passage is from) and in another, incredibly significant list—

1 This is the genealogy of Jesus the Messiah the son of David, the son of Abraham:

2 Abraham was the father of Isaac,
Isaac the father of Jacob,
Jacob the father of Judah and his brothers,

3 Judah the father of Perez and Zerah, whose mother was Tamar,
Perez the father of Hezron,
Hezron the father of Ram,

4 Ram the father of Amminadab,
Amminadab the father of Nahshon,
Nahshon the father of Salmon,

5 Salmon the father of Boaz, whose mother was Rahab,
Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth,
Obed the father of Jesse,

6 and Jesse the father of King David…

(Matthew 1:1-6, TNIV)

This good-for-nothing object of scorn—-who most of us would think would mater very little to anyone—stands generations and generations and generations later not only as an example of great faith… but is in the lineage of the Promised One; the Messiah; the Rescuer; the Christ who would take away the sin of the world.

So, as we prepare to look at what a prostitute with a derogatory, pagan name can teach us about faith, reflect on the redemptive hope we already see in her story: you and I are not too dirty, too wicked, or too worldly for God himself to reach into our lives and transform us into people radically different than we once were; into radically changed people who radically change the world because of (and in) his power and authority.  There is hope for you and me in Rahab’s story; we are not too far gone for rescue—God’s beauty can invade the darkness and dirt of our lives, and when he does invade our lives, we find a destiny far beyond anything we ever could have ever built or hoped.

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July 21, 2009 — Leave a comment

I SHOULD be at a meeting right about now with Wesleyan pastors from this area.  A group of us are meeting at Mt. Union Wesleyan church, where Josh Rhone pastors.

I thought this would be a good chance to checkout the delayed posting feature on the ol’ blog here, so while I’m enjoying great conversation with some very good men, you can enjoy my favorite of the ‘Mac/PC’ videos we shot last year about Church Planting for the district here:

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July 19, 2009 — Leave a comment

Here’s one of the videos I got to take part in for our Church Multiplication Task Force (with an online home at www.TheyDidWeWill.org) last year.  We had a lot of fun doing these–this one is one of my favorites–I’ll post my ‘real’ favorite some other time.  (A special thanks to Creative Genius Ken Depeal and ‘Co-Star’ Shawn Cossin.)

Enjoy: